About Us

We’re a crew of spouses and partners who know that military life isn’t just about surviving deployments — it’s about thriving in between them. We create spaces where you can laugh until your cheeks hurt, swap deployment hacks that actually work, and make friendships that outlast duty stations.

Our calendar is packed with everything from high-energy welcome socials (yes, with themes that sometimes get a little wild) to low-key coffee mornings, holiday bashes, volunteer projects, and spur-of-the-moment adventures that make San Diego feel like home.

Whether you’re fresh off the brow with your first set of orders or you can navigate a homecoming like a pro, you’ll find your people here. We’re not just a social club — we’re the squadron you choose. And there’s always room for one more in our formation.

What is SOS of San Diego?

Surface Officers' Spouses Club (SOS) of San Diego is a non-profit organization which encourages morale, friendship, and communication between its members and also supports the Naval Surface families of the United States Navy in the San Diego, CA area.

How can I get involved?

Qualified spouses are able to become members of the Surface Officers' Spouses Club of San Diego by paying a membership fee and filling out the membership information form. Just press the button below to get started!

What events do you host?

We host various social and charitable events aimed at fostering communication and camaraderie among surface navy families. These include a monthly event and various smaller group events such as JO (Junior Officer) Spouse events, CO/XO (Commanding Officer and Executive Officer) Spouse events, and coordinated events with the Naval Officers' Spouses' Club (NOSC).

Who can join SOS?

Membership is open to all spouses and significant others of active duty, reserve, retired, and deceased commissioned or warrant Surface Warfare Officers of the United States Navy.